Dude, you need to stay married, please !!
There is so much bad news out there and I am not sure why but the bad news keeps getting worse.
I know that someone has said that it gets worse before getting better.
I am perhaps writing this because I find more and more people are getting separated, for some reason, and I am not sure, why , but I am not the brightest of the bulbs either.
I think that dude, you need to stay married, please.
I say please because in addition to being so non-confrontational, I am also making a request.
Here are some points that could help you
1) Talk about the good things in your life.
2) Talk about the not so good things in your life.
3) Talk about what you and your spouse can improve and work on.
4) Talk about meeting life mid way as each of you will have to walk the walk and perhaps talk the talk to the middle ground.
5) Talk about the ground rules.
6) Talk about your time for yourself.
7) Talk about your kids (if any).
8) Praise in public, criticise in private.
9) Change yourself before changing others.
10) Live and let live
11) Focus on the good things you guys have, together
12) Find a way to find romance.
13) touch each other every day
14) Dont go to bed without sorting out the problems.
15) Find the people who want to see the marriage work.
16) Seek help from those who want to see the marriage work.
16) Keep quiet when your spouse is mad and vice versa.
17) Show your affection publicly.
18) Say i love you, everyday
19) Fight for what is right,but politely.
20) Admit when you are wrong.
21) Shut up when you are right.
22) Dont mistake kindness for weakness.
23) Leverage whatever to work the marriage.
24)Say Thank you,politely.
25) Smile and create more endorphins.
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